Before reading this blog, be aware that I use some foul language.

I have been accused of being hard on people and kicking ass.  Of course, I prefer to see it differently.  When I am providing guidance or delivering a message that appears to be overly harsh, I always follow up with the following:  I love you too much to leave you in your shit.  This is what friends do for each other.

I am not hear to mollify you and spare your feelings.  That would be the opposite of the service I provide to people.  I am here to help shake you out of your comfort zone and show you how uncomfortable and painful your perceived comfort zone is.  I am here to help you grow and learn.  I am here to help you heal and how can I do that by pretending?

We can all fool ourselves into believing we have arrived and our healing is complete.  If you believe you are done healing and growing then you will miss the truly fabulous person you are and you will miss the truly fabulous opportunities the universe can provide you as you move forward.  There are people who choose to stay exactly where they are and I honour that.  If you come to me for answers however, be prepared to move out of your comfort zone.

Creator has been very verbal lately about comfort zones.  Creator has always stated there is much to be healed within ourselves and with others.  "Be fearless in your healing," Creator would tell me.  "Be fearless because there is great peace and love on the other side of that healing.  You think life is great now...wait until you've healed more."

This is message I bring to you today.  The time for timid is done.  The time for boldness and greatness is at hand.  Allow yourself to move into a space of boldness and your greatness will shine.  Being timid is to allow yourself to wallow in your shit and that is no longer possible.  The shift of energy in the universe is pushing us from the third dimension to the fifth dimension.  The third dimension is a state of survival and materialism, the fifth dimension is a state of spirituality where we begin to understand we are born with nothing but ourselves and we will transition out of this life with nothing but ourselves.  What does the Self look like when it exits this existence is the question before you.  Are you going to heal fears, beliefs, promises and vows that you have brought with you into this life and those you've gathered in this lifetime or are you going to shed those fears, beliefs, promises and vows as much as you can with the time remaining before you move back into spirit form?  What is the Self going to look like at the end of this journey?

People have commented that healing is painful.  I would suggest that standing in your own crap is even more so.  How many opportunities have passed you by because you are stuck?  How many times have you wished you could do something but prevented yourself because of beliefs or fears?  Life is to be experienced not watched.  How much time do you spend in front of the TV or on the computer reading about other people's adventures and sighing if only...

I love you too much to leave you where you are at.  I love me too much to leave me where I am at too... If I am nervous about something and it's in the highest good, I do it.  And you could's only a decision.

Dance like no one is watching!?  Dance REGARDLESS of who is watching.  Sing like no one is listening?  Sing REGARDLESS of who is listening.  I guarantee those watching you or listening wish they too had the courage to do the same.  There is magic in boldness and the universe will reward that.  The universe is waiting to gift you.  Are you ready to gift yourself?  You are worth it you know.

Be yourself.  Live life.  Be bold.

With blessings


18/06/2014 13:12

Being bold scares a lot of people in your life. It scares me too to be truthful, but I have faith in the Universe and so I trust that and I am not as frightened by my boldness as others are for me. My family refers to my boldness as "pulling one of my irresponsible stunts". I was given many messages to leave Moncton, that what I came here to do was nearing its completion. I made the decision to go back to Dartmouth, back to my roots. The questions of course started, where are you going to live - I don't know I haven't found a place yet. Do you have a job there - no, but I will look for one when I get there. How will you get your stuff there - someone will help me. When are you giving your notice where you live now - I already have. Oh my god, that is only 30 days from now are you crazy - I know it amazing that I have so much time - 30 days, a lot can happen in 30 days. I can't believe you are doing this to us again - doing what to you. Causing all this stress in our lives worrying about you - everything is going to be ok, you don't have to worry. Slam, phone put down in my ear. That is one side of the being bold coin, the other is, oh I wish I could be as free as you, I could never do what you do, how can you have such trust that things will work out cause they never do for me, you are so brave, etc.

Don't get me wrong, I am not indifferent to the people around me, I now chose not to allow their feasr to keep me where they feel safe in having me. I do not set out to cause them worry, but I have too many times in my life allowed their fears to rule my decisions. It wasn't even my fear, it was theirs, and my fear of hurting their feelings or upsetting them further is what helped to keep me stuck in a life that I was miserable in. This past weekend. I had a huge yard sale to help fund my move, and friends were saying, you can't sell that it means so much to you, and I would say, do you want it, I'll sell it to you - but it means so much to you -if it did I wouldn't sell it, it is just stuff and I have proven many times that I am wonderful at manifesting stuff, so good in fact that I don't even know how it all gets into the house. Anyway, I clearly recall a decision I made 4.5 years ago to live my life fearlessly and to boldly go where no ME has gone before. So off I go. Boldly, fearlessly and laughing til my sides hurt. I am going to have fun on this new adventure. Oh, yes, it only took me 12 days to manifest a great place to live, now manifesting a way to get there.

02/01/2017 09:19

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This is a time for brave and strong people. You should act or you would be forever lost!

12/03/2017 07:34

That't right. You will be great. If you will move. And work hard on it!


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